I went to a cookout because my friend graduated from receiving his Master’s at North Carolina A&T State University (Go Kris!) and taught another friend how to play spades. Well, after doing that, I really had this desire to play spades!!!
I told my girl how I really wanted to play spades and although she is […]

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Since writing “Does God Love Homosexuals” I have received a number of comments in my honesty box telling me, “Calvin, I am your friend and I am bi” or “I am gay and I am very thankful that you wrote the note that you did.” Also got some “Calvin you were wrong but thanks for […]

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Please note - this message isn’t as short as some of my others…
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I had a conversation today with someone that is a DL (down low) brother that sparked this note.

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Not sure if this note is even necessary just had a thought, so I share…
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Just quick question to the fellas…
After you have come in contact with a female, is she better or worse off?
In all interactions, work, at the club, after you had sex with her (for those having sex), after you lied, after you cheated, after you made her smile… when it is all said and done…

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I was reading and sharing this with someone but when I read it, it bout smacked me in the face…
1 Thes 4:3-8
3It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; 4that each of you should learn to control his own body[a] in a way that is holy and honorable, […]

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Many have heard the quote, “behind every good man is a good woman”…
Well, I was journaling today (ha, I just announced I did that - T.S. you got me going..lol - anyways), so yes I was writing today and God dropped something on my spirit…
It was something along the lines of:

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A number of women have asked me why I call them queen and I just wanted to state it publicly…
I was listening to someone talk or read a message somewhere and someone called another woman a b**** (I think jokingly). I looked at that and said, hmm I know that what you call or say […]

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