If A Song Ever Defined Me…

If a song ever defined me, it would be this song, The Only Thing by Ronnie Freeman.

It is a beautifully written, played, sung song. You can here it here and go down to “The Only Thing.”

Especially the second verse…

I know today’s post is short but the song will say all that I could possibly communicate.

Man Challenge: Woman, You Are Beautiful

Too many times the only times a woman hears from a man that she is beautiful is when you are attempting to get her undressed or something else material from her. Today is the day, that we as men need to prize and appreciate our woman as more than objects of our gratification and satisfaction.

I have only been on the earth a few years but I have learned that women do desire to receive some level of approval from a man or men in general. So, lets not make them have to get undressed to receive that level of satisfactions. I believe that there is a level of emotional capacity that we as men have been afraid to reach for fear of reaching this level will lower our masculinity or appear to make us soft.

However, I believe that by recognizing and being able to communicate to a woman on this emotional level, we show true strength.

So, men, today I challenge you and here is said challenge:

To tell 1 or more women that (doesn’t have to be the woman you are not sleeping with or trying to sleep with – would be better if it wasn’t) that she is beautiful.

I do not mean the, “her body is beautiful,” or “her hair/face is beautiful.” I mean the genuine, your spirit (which consists of mind, emotions, heart) is beautiful. We are using the adjective beautiful as defined here on dictionary.com:

–adjective

1.	having beauty; having qualities that give great pleasure or satisfaction to see, hear, think about, etc.; delighting the senses or mind: a beautiful dress; a beautiful speech.

2.	excellent of its kind: a beautiful putt on the seventh hole; The chef served us a beautiful roast of beef.

3.	wonderful; very pleasing or satisfying.

This here is more than just an outward appearance. When I challenge you to tell this woman that she is beautiful mean and if you possess the emotional capacity tell her why, “because you overcome so much to be who you are,” “because you work so hard at …,” “because you are always the nicest person in the office.” Whatever it maybe find some way to make today, that woman’s day.

After you will feel like a real man.