Destiny Is Not Promised: Do Not Become Lost in the Journey

Posted: May 20th, 2009 | Author: | Filed under: Faith, Personal Development | Tags: , , , , | No Comments »

We are all created to do great things and be great people. We are all created to be remembered by history. We are all created equal that is not something that is just promised by the United States Constitution, but as a man or woman you are created equal. Note that created equal does not mean that you are living equal. God forbid, any missing body members, you have two arms, one brain, two legs, etc.

However, created equal does not equate to living equal.

It is your duty and your job on earth to ensure that you live a remarkable life. You have been created with everything that you need to overcome but until you put them into play you will never know what you are truly capable of. Some call it living on the edge, until you get out of the boat and walk on water, you will never know how far you can go.

Life is designed to push back against you achieving your destiny. It is a bottom line fact, systems, rules, regulations, and people are set up as road blocks to stop you from achieving your personal destiny. You have to come to the emotional point, I will not give up, I will not give up and I can do this.

Your mother can not do it for you, your father can not do it for you, and your friends can not do it for you. The only way that you can reach and manifest your destiny is when the world pushes you up against a corner, you demand on yourself to push back. It is a learned skill, one that when master will ensure that you never lose again in your life.

Make today your day. Make today be the day that you stop allowing life to pass you by. Get angry, get focused, and get your destiny.

No one is holding up your stuff. The only reason why you are in the life that you are living now is because you accept it. How do I know that? Because the only reason why I am in the life that I am in now, is because I accepted it. Well, here is a public notice of a private declaration, I reject the areas and things in my life that are not apart of my destiny and I replace them with my aspects and features of my destiny that were promised to me as a human created on this earth.

Today is the day. Now is the time. My world is rearranged according to my words and my beliefs. If you don’t believe me, just keep living, you will see.


Man Challenge: Woman, You Are Beautiful

Posted: May 19th, 2009 | Author: | Filed under: Personal Development, Relationships | Tags: , , , | No Comments »

Too many times the only times a woman hears from a man that she is beautiful is when you are attempting to get her undressed or something else material from her. Today is the day, that we as men need to prize and appreciate our woman as more than objects of our gratification and satisfaction.

I have only been on the earth a few years but I have learned that women do desire to receive some level of approval from a man or men in general. So, lets not make them have to get undressed to receive that level of satisfactions. I believe that there is a level of emotional capacity that we as men have been afraid to reach for fear of reaching this level will lower our masculinity or appear to make us soft.

However, I believe that by recognizing and being able to communicate to a woman on this emotional level, we show true strength.

So, men, today I challenge you and here is said challenge:

To tell 1 or more women that (doesn’t have to be the woman you are not sleeping with or trying to sleep with – would be better if it wasn’t) that she is beautiful.

I do not mean the, “her body is beautiful,” or “her hair/face is beautiful.” I mean the genuine, your spirit (which consists of mind, emotions, heart) is beautiful. We are using the adjective beautiful as defined here on dictionary.com:

–adjective

1. having beauty; having qualities that give great pleasure or satisfaction to see, hear, think about, etc.; delighting the senses or mind: a beautiful dress; a beautiful speech.
2. excellent of its kind: a beautiful putt on the seventh hole; The chef served us a beautiful roast of beef.
3. wonderful; very pleasing or satisfying.

This here is more than just an outward appearance. When I challenge you to tell this woman that she is beautiful mean and if you possess the emotional capacity tell her why, “because you overcome so much to be who you are,” “because you work so hard at …,” “because you are always the nicest person in the office.” Whatever it maybe find some way to make today, that woman’s day.

After you will feel like a real man.