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		<title>Teenagers, Instant Messaging and Situations</title>
		<link>http://calvinwilliamsjr.com/2010/05/25/teenagers-instant-messaging-and-situations/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 14:48:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Calvin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I received this as a forward and I usually never forward forwards but this one struck me. I wanted to read it because I was a child that grew up on the computer and this could had been me. Even more, with our currently culture, this can happen to even more children and I pray [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I received this as a forward and I usually never forward forwards but this one struck me. I wanted to read it because I was a child that grew up on the computer and this could had been me. Even more, with our currently culture, this can happen to even more children and I pray never to my own. Therefore, I hope you enjoy this and share it with those that you feel it could bless. Whether the story is true or not, it still sends a message that should be recieved by all considering the times we live in.</p>
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<div>After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line.. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">ByAngel213:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Hi. I&#8217;m glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!</div>
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GoTo123:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">LOL You watch too much TV. Why would someone be following you? Don&#8217;t you live in a safe neighborhood?</div>
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ByAngel213:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz&#8217; I didn&#8217;t see anybody when I looked out.</div>
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GoTo123:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven&#8217;t done that have you?</div>
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ByAngel213:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Of course not. I&#8217;m not stupid you know.</div>
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GoTo123:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Did you have a softball game after school today?</div>
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ByAngel213:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Yes, and we won!!</div>
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GoTo123:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">That&#8217;s great! Who did you play?</div>
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ByAngel213:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL</div>
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GoTo123:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">What is your team called?</div>
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ByAngel213:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.</div>
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GoTo123:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Did you pitch?</div>
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ByAngel213:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">No, I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don&#8217;t want them mad at me. Bye!</div>
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GoTo123:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Catch you later. Bye</div>
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Meanwhile, GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.</div>
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Her name: Shannon</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Age: 13</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">State where she lived: North Carolina</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall.</div>
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<div>Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the Canton Junior High School . She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.</div>
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<div>Shannon didn&#8217;t tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn&#8217;t want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn&#8217;t be so overprotective.</div>
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<div>By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her. Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.</div>
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<div id="_mcePaste">He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn&#8217;t look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.</div>
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<div>After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her.</div>
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<div>Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon &#8216;s home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.</div>
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<div>Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon &#8216;s house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.</div>
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<div>Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room. &#8221;Shannon, come here,&#8221; her father called.. He sounded upset and she couldn&#8217;t imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.</div>
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<div>&#8220;Sit down,&#8221; her father began, &#8220;this man has just told us a most interesting story about you.&#8221; Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!</div>
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<div>&#8220;Do you know who I am, Shannon ?&#8221; the man asked..</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">&#8220;No,&#8221; Shannon answered.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">&#8220;I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123.&#8221;</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Shannon was stunned. &#8220;That&#8217;s impossible! GoTo123 is a kid my age! He&#8217;s 14. And he lives in Michigan !&#8221;</div>
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<div>The man smiled. &#8220;I know I told you all that, but it wasn&#8217;t true. You see, Shannon , there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze.&#8221;</div>
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<div>Shannon was stunned. &#8220;You mean you don&#8217;t live in Michigan ?&#8221;</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">He laughed. &#8220;No, I live in Raleigh . It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn&#8217;t it?&#8221;</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">She nodded.</div>
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<div>&#8220;I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn&#8217;t as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you&#8217;ve learned a lesson from this and won&#8217;t do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?&#8221;</div>
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<div>&#8220;It&#8217;s a promise!&#8221;</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">That night Shannon and her Dad and Mom thanked God for protecting Shannon from what could have been a tragic situation.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">*****NOW****</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">EVEN FORWARD THIS TO PEOPLE WITHOUT KIDS SO THEY CAN SEND IT TO FRIENDS THAT DO HAVE CHILDREN OR GRANDCHILDREN.</div>
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		<title>Why Do I Direct Message Your Reply</title>
		<link>http://calvinwilliamsjr.com/2009/08/29/why-do-i-direct-message-your-reply/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 23:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Calvin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Twitter is an amazing service and I love it. It has become apart of my life (follow me) but I have noticed that everyone is using Twitter for different reasons and some may not understand all of the features. Often times when someone sends me a reply to a message I have posted, I may [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Twitter is an amazing service and I love it. It has become apart of my life (<a href="http://www.twitter.com/calvinwilliams">follow me</a>) but I have noticed that everyone is using Twitter for different reasons and some may not understand all of the features.</p>
<p>Often times when someone sends me a reply to a message I have posted, I may send you a Direct Message rather than another reply. Just wanted to offer an explanation of why:</p>
<ul>
<li>Privacy: There comes in a point in every conversation when the topic has become to private for all of the internet to know.</li>
<li>Bore the People: I have had to unfollow a few people that make their twitter into a public conversation. I understand and respect some public conversation (I do it myself, when I leave an option for someone else to comment) but most times no one else needs to know that level of detail.</li>
<li>Some Still Use Their Phone (i.e. Text): I know some followers receive my tweets in text messages and maybe some of yours are doing the same thing. Do you really want that person to become point 2 (Bore the People)?</li>
</ul>
<p>So just a few thoughts on why I choose to DM much more than @.</p>
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		<title>Excellent Wireframe/Layout Program &#8211; Iplotz</title>
		<link>http://calvinwilliamsjr.com/2009/07/23/excellent-wireframelayout-program-iplotz/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 17:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Calvin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was looking for a way to help my clients see what we were going to create for them before we created it. I stumbled upon this excellent software to get the job done. It is called iPlotz. Why Do I Love This Software: Because I do not have to use Visio to make a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was looking for a way to help my clients see what we were going to create for them before we created it. I stumbled upon this excellent software to get the job done. It is called <a title="iPlotz" href="http://iplotz.com/" target="_blank">iPlotz</a>.</p>
<div class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 254px"><img title="Iplot Screenshot" src="http://iplotz.com/images/whatis_screenshot02.gif" alt="Iplotz" width="244" height="169" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Iplotz</p></div>
<p>Why Do I Love This Software:</p>
<ul>
<li>Because I do not have to use Visio to make a wireframe when Visio is far from cost effective.</li>
<li>It takes far less time to make a wireframe, you can go from making it in an hour to under 20 minutes.</li>
<li>It works on Windows/Mac</li>
<li>It allows multiple ways to export the wireframe (images, web pages, etc.)</li>
<li>Allows collabortaion &#8211; I can invite others to comment on what I have done so I do not have to hold extra meetings.</li>
<li>It allows you to group your wireframes by projects so as you create multiple wire frames they will not get confused with other projects</li>
</ul>
<p>Extras:</p>
<ul>
<li>Now, I do my project management in another tool but if you are looking for a project management tool as well, this program comes with a basic project management tool. Especially for individuals that are stronger in design then in project management this would be great for them.</li>
</ul>
<p>The pricing is great, ranging from FREE! to $495 for 10 users. I mean, it really doesn&#8217;t get any better than this. This program has become the default for <a title="XMG Online" href="http://iplotz.com/images/whatis_screenshot02.gif" target="_blank">my company</a> to do web layouts and wireframes.</p>
<p>Also they company is based near where I am from in VA (I am from MD), so they can&#8217;t be a bad group of guys. <img src='http://calvinwilliamsjr.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>How To Use Twitter</title>
		<link>http://calvinwilliamsjr.com/2009/05/11/how-to-use-twitter/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 11:52:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Calvin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Twitter recently has been getting alot of press and there are alot of non geeks getting on twitter. With that many are (a) confused or (b) misusing the service due to a lack of knowledge. One thing that is very interesting to me about the twitter main site is they poorly describe to the new [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.twitter.com"><img class="alignleft" style="border: 7px solid white;" src="http://assets0.twitter.com/images/twitter_logo_header.png" alt="Twitter Logo" width="155" height="36" />Twitter</a> recently has been getting alot of press and there are alot of non geeks getting on twitter. With that many are (a) confused or (b) misusing the service due to a lack of knowledge. One thing that is very interesting to me about the twitter main site is they poorly describe to the new user how to use the site.</p>
<p>I first joined <a href="http://www.twitter.com/calvinwilliams">twitter</a> in 2007 and when I thought it was cool but didn&#8217;t really understand it at all. Well, a few years later, I got back on it and began to use it but because I couldn&#8217;t find my friends (Misconception #1) I got back and stayed with <a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=11200258&amp;ref=profile">facebook</a>. To me facebook was clean, made sense instantly and everyone I knew was there. But then in 2009, it hit me and I found out how to (1) extract value out of twitter and (2) put value into twitter.</p>
<p>Here is my list of ways to get and give value into Twitter.</p>
<ol>
<li>Do not think of Twitter as a Social Network First
<ol>
<li>This is the biggest misconception when you look at Twitter first as a social network you will quickly see it as silly or having no value.
<ul>
<li>View twitter as a way to follow leaders, movers, shakers, family, friends and see what they are thinking or doing.</li>
<li>The &#8220;follow&#8221; principal is based on that you are not where they are, you are not thinking what they are thinking but by &#8220;following&#8221; someone you can gain access to someone that you may not otherwise gain access to.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Think of Twitter of Follow/Followers First and Then as you develop a relationship it becomes social networking.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ol>
</li>
<li> 140 Characters
<ul>
<li>First you may think, man how am I supposed to cram all of my super long thoughts into 140 characters?!?! That is the point.
<ul>
<li>The 140 character limit forces you into being conscise direct and hopeful meaningful. This does not mean to break a 500 character message into 3 updates, no one wants to read that&#8230; Trust me.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Statuses, Replies, Direct Messages, Favorites
<ul>
<li>Statuses
<ul>
<li>In the box with a simple message, &#8220;What Are You Doing?&#8221; can cause someone to update this with, &#8220;I am using the bathroom.&#8221; or &#8220;I am driving to work.&#8221; But this, I believe is the most ineffective way to use twitter. Think of the question not &#8220;What Are You Doing?&#8221; but &#8220;What Are You Doing/Thinking that Adds Value to Your Follower&#8217;s Life?&#8221;Want to find out if your statuses are of value? Are you loosing or gaining followers? If you are loosing followers, what better way to tell you&#8230; Post something of value.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Replies
<ul>
<li>Because of the lack of value put on Statues when you reply to someone&#8217;s status and they reply to you, why not just keep that party going? No! Your followers, do not want to follow the conversation of your friends unless it meets the rule of adding value to their life. No one wants to pull up twitter and have their feed filled with a conversation about you and your dog. Unless, you have mentions that are meaningful.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Direct Messages
<ul>
<li>That brings me to Direct Messages, the perfect place for a conversation. I will often times, I have a status or respond to a status through DM so that we can converse on that topic keeping all the details here. However, if something is said that is powerful or impactful then I move it to my status.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>ReTwit
<ul>
<li>Lets say you like someone&#8217;s status and want to share it with everyone that is following you. You can &#8220;ReTwit&#8221; which means to take their take and make it your status. Twitter will automatically add their name so that the original poster can recieve status. This is how alot of news or information passes quickly through Twitter.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Favorites
<ul>
<li>This is one of my personal favorite features of Twitter. Often times I am reading Twitter on my phone using <a href="http://www.trinketsoftware.com/Twikini/">Twikini</a> and someone says something of value but I can&#8217;t read it now. It may be a great link or a interesting status that I want to think about later. I will mark it as my favorite and then later come back to it to really evaluate it.I use this often with industry leaders. They post so much stuff, I can&#8217;t possible take it all in at that time, so I will favorite it and then come back when my life slows down.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Twitter Language (@, #, Follow Friday) &#8211; Another wrench is that Twitter does have it&#8217;s own lanugage and to a novice that language looks rather foolish.
<ul>
<li>@
<ul>
<li>When you are directing a message to someone you will use the &#8220;@&#8221; symbol. This is only used in statuses and not direct messages because it tells all of your followers that you are talking @calvinwilliams.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>#
<ul>
<li>This is a really neat feature to me but you are able to tag your statuses so that others that maybe searching for the same subject can find it. For example, if this were a post &#8220;Going downtown to grab some #fastfood.&#8221; The &#8220;#fastfood&#8221; part will feature an underline (on my twitter apps) that would allow you to then click on the link and view everyone else that is talking about the same thing. It is a real quick way to guage the activity of a certain topic or term.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Follow Friday
<ul>
<li>If you log on Twitter on Friday, you will see status like #FollowFriday @calvinwilliams @freelancesw @xmgonline @beverlbr. That may just look like a bunch of WHAT?! But lets break this down with our current knowledge:#FollowFriday &#8211; ah telling everyone that follows me that I am posting a status about Follow Friday<br />
@calvinwilliams (and others) &#8211; giving everyone that follows me the names of other users</p>
<p>FollowFriday is all about promoting some good people that you follow to other people. It increases their &#8220;follow-ship&#8221; (just made that up) and is good for the community. Think of it as these are my top friends/associates on twitter.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Linking
<ul>
<li>Alot of statuses now have links to other content because of the 140 limit. So, often times people post a link that looks real short. They have used a URL shorten to make a long URL fit and take up less characters. Check out this <a href="http:/bit.ly">site</a>.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Twitter Applications
<ul>
<li>Twitter has such a following that they have some sort of economy around them (although not sure if everything is profitable). Instead of being on your desktop, logged on to www.twitter.com you can use applications to access twitter for you on the device that you use the most. They have applications for BlackBerry, Iphone, Windows Mobile, Ipod, Desktops, Plug In To Websites, Facebook, etc.It is all about where do you already spend much of your time and then finding the app that you like that fits your lifestyle.My suggestion of apps are for <a href="http://www.tweetdeck.com/beta/">Mac and Windows</a>, <a href="http://www.trinketsoftware.com/Twikini/">Windows Mobile</a>, and <a href="http://iconfactory.com/software/twitterrific">Iphone</a>. For Windows Mobile, I just have to highlight my favorite program, Twikini. I love this program! It is so easy to use. It has different profiles. It is out of beta now and it is great. It meets all of my needs for a twitter app (<a href="http://www.trinketsoftware.com/Twikini/Themes.aspx">see screen shot</a>) listed below. <a href="http://www.trinketsoftware.com/Twikini">If you want to get it, you can visit here.</a>What Do I look for in a twitter app?
<ul>
<li>Ease of Use</li>
<li>Attractive</li>
<li>Fast</li>
<li>Ability to Post/Read/Reply/Edit Status, Replies, Favorites and Direct Messages easily</li>
<li>Ability to click links out of the status</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ol>
<p>So, there are alot of other uses for Twitter but this is a good foundation and will get you on your way. One of the best things you can do on twitter is to follow <a href="http://twitter.com/calvinwilliams/status/1316282798">me</a>, lol. Can you blame me? Enjoy the Day.</p>
<p>C.</p>
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		<title>Another Reason Why Myspace is Failing</title>
		<link>http://calvinwilliamsjr.com/2009/03/14/another-reason-why-myspace-is-failing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Mar 2009 23:35:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Calvin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Myspace really is just not getting it, they have missed the boat on several levels and wonder if they are even trying. I tried to visit a friend’s myspace page and there is not mobile viewer. This is crazy, facebook got that years ago and I think that’s one of the reasons that facebook took [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Myspace really is just not getting it, they have missed the boat on several levels and wonder if they are even trying.</p>
<p>I tried to visit a friend’s myspace page and there is not mobile viewer. This is crazy, facebook got that years ago and I think that’s one of the reasons that facebook took over.</p>
<p>In additional, their major flaw is their open archectiture for html. Although everyone loved the way that you could customize your page (to me just made everything look crazy) it opened the door for spammers. Which now, that is all myspace is to me.</p>
<p>Just a thought..</p>
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		<title>Please, More Stereotype Breaking Women in Technology</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 23:46:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Calvin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, yesterday I spoke at the Career Fair as a “vendor”/”career type” at Smith High School and I definitely felt a little different before I set up our booth than I normally do when I go out and encourage the kids to go out and accomplish their dreams. It is because of a new buddy [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, yesterday I spoke at the Career Fair as a “vendor”/”career type” at <a title="http://schoolcenter.gcsnc.com/education/school/school.php?sectionid=43" href="http://www.facebook.com/note_redirect.php?note_id=71614183867&amp;h=285e090ac1a19338c795f6930c46d7b0&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fschoolcenter.gcsnc.com%2Feducation%2Fschool%2Fschool.php%3Fsectionid%3D43" target="_blank">Smith High School</a> and I definitely felt a little different before I set up our booth than I normally do when I go out and encourage the kids to go out and accomplish their dreams.</p>
<p>It is because of a <a title="http://www.courtneyelizabeth.com/" href="http://www.facebook.com/note_redirect.php?note_id=71614183867&amp;h=6a5f1556987e67faa1e8a4d11d4a0c02&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.courtneyelizabeth.com%2F" target="_blank">new buddy of mine</a>. I actually met this young lady through Facebook and we chatted for a few hours about various things and she really inspired me. I wondering why don’t we have more women in technology like her. She really defiles the stereotypes of a female web designer (probably because she models and does great web design).</p>
<p>Then there is another <a title="http://lipstickcafe.wordpress.com/" href="http://www.facebook.com/note_redirect.php?note_id=71614183867&amp;h=5e9d90c4ae21b4f6d768c345f5da82e0&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Flipstickcafe.wordpress.com%2F" target="_blank">new buddy</a>, she doesn’t do web design but is hard core geek. So the both of them, had my mine running like why are they are the only two that I have met like that.</p>
<p>So, I woke up and went with <a title="http://www.craigstokes.com" href="http://www.facebook.com/note_redirect.php?note_id=71614183867&amp;h=be176bd1fdb5ec4d9c69357345677f59&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.craigstokes.com" target="_blank">my buddy </a>to the career fair because we basically do everything together. After we were both set up (pictures coming), I was beginning to think back on my new buddy and I began to be sexists toward the women. I started calling out all the young women and asking them if they had an interest in a career in Technology. I only had 2 yes’s and maybe 20-25 no’s. (If anyone has any statistics, please comment!)</p>
<p>I tried to make it as appealing as possible but it wasn’t until I had to leave did I figure out the proper hook for them and then I began to see the lights go off in their head.</p>
<p>After I left, I <a title="http://twitter.com/calvinwilliams/status/1316282798" href="http://www.facebook.com/note_redirect.php?note_id=71614183867&amp;h=3af7615c9354de021564ca4373d2d50c&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Ftwitter.com%2Fcalvinwilliams%2Fstatus%2F1316282798" target="_blank">tweeted</a> how I feel it is very important that we get more women in technology, not just so they can even things out, not just because women think differently than men and could provide a great point of view, but hey we geek men need hot geek women. <img class="ext_img" src="http://external.ak.fbcdn.net/safe_image.php?d=1b47558d4477a403bc15c3d4c3d57fbc&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fcalvinwilliamsjr.com%2Fwp-includes%2Fimages%2Fsmilies%2Ficon_smile.gif" alt="" /></p>
<p>Seriously, we need more women in technology and I look forward to going back to Smith High School and going a presentation on women in technology. I can speak to it a little but there is nothing like seeing a woman speak on it as well. So, I look forward to bringing someone with me to make an impact in these young women’s lives and atleast make it easier for my son to find a hot geek wife. <img class="ext_img" src="http://external.ak.fbcdn.net/safe_image.php?d=1b47558d4477a403bc15c3d4c3d57fbc&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fcalvinwilliamsjr.com%2Fwp-includes%2Fimages%2Fsmilies%2Ficon_smile.gif" alt="" /></p>
<p>C.</p>
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		<title>Unlike on Facebook</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 23:48:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Calvin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it is possible to like something on facebook but is it possible to unlike something? I just saw some pictures and wish I could say, “um, ya I really don’t like this…” lol Just saying…]]></description>
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<p>I know it is possible to like something on facebook but is it possible to unlike something? <img class="ext_img" src="http://external.ak.fbcdn.net/safe_image.php?d=1b47558d4477a403bc15c3d4c3d57fbc&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fcalvinwilliamsjr.com%2Fwp-includes%2Fimages%2Fsmilies%2Ficon_smile.gif" alt="" /></p>
<p>I just saw some pictures and wish I could say, “um, ya I really don’t like this…” lol</p>
<p>Just saying…</p></div>
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		<title>Dating in 2009 &#8211; Through Technology</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 23:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Calvin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Through a few conversations and some of my own experience, I just had some funny thoughts on how dating has changed in our generation. So this note will be written a little different then some of mine in the past, it will be more like before and after. Before - Boy sees Girl somewhere on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Through a few conversations and some of my own experience, I just had some funny thoughts on how dating has changed in our generation. So this note will be written a little different then some of mine in the past, it will be more like before and after.</p>
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<strong>Before</strong></p>
<p>- Boy sees Girl somewhere on the street<br />
- Boy asks around about Girl<br />
- Boy approaches Girl and asks for number</p>
<p><strong>After</strong></p>
<p>- Boy sees Girl in Facebook photo of a mutual friend that tagged her<br />
- Boy asks mutual friend about tagged Girl and if possible reads her profile and finds out about her<br />
- Boy asks Girl to be her Friend and chats through facebook</p>
<p><span> &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;</span>&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</p>
<p><strong>Before</strong></p>
<p>- Boy and Girl have a long distance relationship and they write letters/phone calls/send pictures</p>
<p><strong>After</strong></p>
<p>- Boy and Girl have a long distance relationship, Skype/Video Chat and watch each other while playing online games</p>
<p><span> &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;</span>&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</p>
<p><strong>Before</strong></p>
<p>- Boy and Girl text each other all day</p>
<p><strong>After</strong></p>
<p>- Boy and Girl direct tweet each other and don&#8217;t even need to exchange numbers</p>
<p><span> &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;</span>&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</p>
<p><strong>Before</strong></p>
<p>- Boy asks his friends about a girl he is interested in<br />
- Boy goes through multiple conversations to learn about Girl</p>
<p><strong>After</strong></p>
<p>- Boy reads her fb page, tweets, and blogs and puts together a real good picture of who she is compared to who she says she is</p>
<p><span> &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;</span>&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</p>
<p><strong>Before</strong></p>
<p>- Boy asks Girl to tell him about herself<br />
- Boy listens to a long conversation</p>
<p><strong>After</strong></p>
<p>- Boy asks Girl to tell him about herself<br />
- Girl gives Boy the link to the Random List of 25 Things About Me</p>
<p><span> &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;</span>&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</p>
<p><strong>Before</strong></p>
<p>- Boy tries to be respectful and slick to check out Girl&#8217;s body and catches just glimpses</p>
<p><strong>After</strong></p>
<p>- Boy spends as long as he wants looking at Girl&#8217;s pictures and has his boys look as well to decide to holla or not.</p>
<p><span> &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;</span>&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</p>
<p><strong>Before</strong></p>
<p>- Boy and Girl stay up all night on the phone</p>
<p><strong>After</strong></p>
<p>- Boy and Girl stay up all night instant messenger and text messaging</p>
<p><span> &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;</span>&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</p>
<p><strong>Before</strong></p>
<p>- Boy and Girl go out of their way to find eachother and just say hey during the day</p>
<p><strong>After</strong></p>
<p>- Boy and Girl send picture mail through their phones</p>
<p><span> &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;</span>&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&amp;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</div>
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