Why I am Loving Being Single!!!

I have been catching (either directly or by proxy) a little bit of heat for a status like “Calvin is loving being single!” So, I would just like to set the record straight.
We live in a culture where every one goes around saying, “it is ok to be who you are, where you are, accept where you are, enjoy life how it is now, don’t focus on future joys, enjoy the joys you have now.”

But the second one begins to do that, especially in an arena like relationships (where so many people desire to have a mate more than they desire to love themselves) it is like a shock or shot heard round the world.

People! Come On! If I desire to be married (which I do), but I am not married (which I am not), then why shouldn’t I love where I am currently in life! Why should I store up my future joy, when I have joy now!

A statement like that has nothing to do with past, present, or future relationships, it has to do with the fact that I as a human being am happy and content enough with myself that I can love being single.

What I ask, is stop looking at situations from your hurt, broken, busted point of view and begin to see how beautiful your current situation is. Being single is a lovely thing. Where else can I travel at the drop of a dime, come home and sleep all day, not be accountable to someone else, have my house exactly the way I want it, play music as loud as I want, dream big dreams and work as hard as I want to achieve them without someone asking me to come to bed. Being single is the time in your life to create the life you want for when you are married.

I am loving the process!

So, if you do not love being single and are (insert word – other than ‘hating’) on the fact that I am loving my process to become a wonderful husband and father, I don’t want to hear it and don’t tell anyone that is going to bring it back to me. I am too busy taking over the world to be bothered with foolish conversation that doesn’t yield profit.

Ok, now back to taking over the world…