Calvin: Because of You – My Girl Won’t Have Sex With Me

So, here I was, about a year or two ago now, stranded.

I was locked out of my office, which meant I was also locked out of my house, which meant I was also locked out of my car. But thankfully I had a cell phone.

So, I called a buddy of mine and asked if I could sleep on his couch until morning when I could get in my office and get my keys. He came, picked me up and we arrived at his place. So, we are on the couch watching the NBA and his other friend walks in who I also know and would consider a friend of mine.

So, we are all sitting there on the couch, when he says, “Calvin, because of you, my girlfriend won’t have sex with me anymore.” So, I sit there for a second, because I am not quite sure how did he mean that.

“Is he mad because unknowingly I changed his woman’s mind to sex and respect?”

“Is he about to express his feelings in unfriendly ways (it can be tough to take sex from a man that isn’t ready)?”

“Um… how did that happen?”

So, I look at him and ask, “How did I do that?”

He responds, “She reads your notes and one night in bed, she just said, “After reading Calvin’s notes, let’s not have sex anymore and (a), (b), (c) and (d). I am shocked! Part of me is happy because man, I am making an impact but the other part is still not sure about how this young sir is about to respond to me.

But he looks at me and smiles and says, “It is all good, I appreciate your notes also. They are good to read.” Whew!!! I was a very happy camper and the conversation went back to sports and life. The next day, I got back into my office and continued on with my life.

But, I am writing this note because you never know who is watching and who you can influence. You can change the world without much effort and without even trying. Make an impact in someone’s life today.